[Chosen One]

Who the hell is in their minds wit to create a family at a time like this with all the above.
I knew a woman back in Denmark that said to me she wanted a child with a certain man and he did not want more because he already had 3 children and they agreed. She then on purpose dropped the pill, lied to him and conceieved a daughter, that I had to raise. Otherwise the child had to suffer in so many ways. She turned out well adjusted because of my help and the whole family dynamic changed for the better and the mother changed her ways. But can you imagine, the father did not want anything to do with his new daughter sadly. The mother said to me why dont you do the same I said I could never do that I have standards and morals and besides that, a child deserve two parents. Thats what I said. She didnt say much. How anyone can deem a child to no father and having to be brought up in a bad family system is beyond me, when it doesnt have to be that way. How we need to think and take responsibility.
There are a few very good things with scandinavia though we do not do roles and we are totally equal in relationships and in society. It is probably the most equal society on the planet. where we share 50-50 and it really is mutuality and sharing, contributing equally. no, noone is after money because we have a income ourselves, we generally dont do family unless we do or even move in which we do more than getting married, half population never get married because we see it as a paper and doesnt change love. and its true. we might have children after years usually but half the population dont especially now. noone ever tries to dominate but we share and communicate and treat each other as a person. you dont get that if there is a power play or roles. those games are just that,games, left overs from earlier primitive societies I KNOW because I remember my past lives.

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Who the hell is in their minds wit to create a family at a time like this with all the above.
I knew a woman back in Denmark that said to me she wanted a child with a certain man and he did not want more because he already had 3 children and they agreed. She then on purpose dropped the pill, lied to him and conceieved a daughter, that I had to raise. Otherwise the child had to suffer in so many ways. She turned out well adjusted because of my help and the whole family dynamic changed for the better and the mother changed her ways. But can you imagine, the father did not want anything to do with his new daughter sadly. The mother said to me why dont you do the same I said I could never do that I have standards and morals and besides that, a child deserve two parents. Thats what I said. She didnt say much. How anyone can deem a child to no father and having to be brought up in a bad family system is beyond me, when it doesnt have to be that way. How we need to think and take responsibility.
There are a few very good things with scandinavia though we do not do roles and we are totally equal in relationships and in society. It is probably the most equal society on the planet. where we share 50-50 and it really is mutuality and sharing, contributing equally. no, noone is after money because we have a income ourselves, we generally dont do family unless we do or even move in which we do more than getting married, half population never get married because we see it as a paper and doesnt change love. and its true. we might have children after years usually but half the population dont especially now. noone ever tries to dominate but we share and communicate and treat each other as a person. you dont get that if there is a power play or roles. those games are just that,games, left overs from earlier primitive societies I KNOW because I remember my past lives.